Oxytocin
Do you want to release more feel good chemicals?
That’s easy, just look into peoples eyes, and don’t look away as soon as they return your glance.
Don’t associate with people that can’t hold your gaze after they have gotten to know you.
The eyes are the windows to the soul, you can tell a lot about a person by looking into their eyes.
You don’t need to be psychic to know if you can trust someone, just look into their eyes for an extended period of time, see how they react, are they comfortable connecting with you on a deeper level?
People that prefer monogamous relationships will get lost in your eyes, they are more likely to gaze at you for long periods of time. If a man or woman gets uncomfortable when you attempt to make and maintain eye contact with them don’t trust them.
However, If someone has a huge crush on you they will probably struggle to maintain eye contact with you, this doesn’t mean you can’t trust them, they are nervous. They lack confidence.
Moreover, a 1970 study in social psychology revealed that lovers who report being strongly in love spend substantially more time gazing into each other’s eyes, than couples that are weakly in love.
Prolonged eye contact has been thought to release phenylethylamine, a chemical responsible for feelings of attraction. It has also been thought to release oxytocin, the love chemical most closely associated with longer term bonding and commitment.
So if you want your clients to trust you look them in the eye and connect with them.
If you fancy someone, look them in the eye, don’t be afraid to open yourself up to them.
You should spend more time looking into peoples eyes, and less time staring at your phone.
For those that can’t sleep at night….
Cells at the back of your eyes pick up particular light wavelengths and, with a light-sensitive protein called melanopsin, signal the brain’s master clock, which controls the body’s circadian rhythms. Blue light, which in nature is most abundant in the morning, tells you to get up and get moving. Red light is more common at dusk and it slows you down. Now, guess what kind of light is streaming from that little screen in your hand at 11:59 P.M.? “Your iPad, your phone, your computer emit large quantities of blue light,” says sleep researcher and chemist Brian Zoltowski of Southern Methodist University.